Dating tips for shy guys
7 dating tips for shy guys : converting your weakness in your strongest weapon!
How?
Make sure you keep shy, quiet and listen to your girl!
Or go for "niche" dating and read our tips for dating a cougar…
How to get a girl to like you
The simplest answer to the question ‘how to attract girls’ is listening to them. Yes that’s right: once you have met a girl through online personals, online dating services or just by bumping into her at work, the best way to get her to like you is to keep quiet…
Or you are just an amazing funny guy, then keep on making jokes. But if you are shy and words don’t come easy, then it’s time to let your date do the talking using the following 7 online dating tips:
- Ask your date to site down and simply ask her what she is feeling. When she asks ‘why’, you simply have to answer that you ask because you really do care about her.
Words like: "If you tell me a little bit more about what you are feeling, I can become better at understanding you. I really do want to understand your feelings."
The best dating advice though is not to overdo it and to be sure you mean what you say. Nothing is worse than not walking the talk…
- When your date starts talking, you need to listen quietly. Use some non verbal techniques like nodding or sounds like "Oh", "I see", "Uh huh" and others.
- Now show that you are listening and listening only. You are not there to solve her problems, but you are there to listen to her feelings.
Try to re-word her feelings in your own words. This lets her know that you understood what she said and if you didn’t, she will be glad to explain herself further.
- DO NOT do things you wouldn’t like other to do to you. In this case DO NOT criticize your date’s feelings. Starting a sentence like: "You are silly…" will most likely be the end of your date (which is another dating tip if you really want to get out of a dating situation you don’t like to be in…).
- Again: NEVER try to solve the problem! We men are great in solving problems, but your strategy here is to show you can listen to your girlfriend. Only when you are asked for a solution, you can say what you meant to say the first second you wanted to solve her problem!
- If the conversation becomes awkward silent, then use some of the following sentences (learn them by hearth now!)
- You really try hard to be a good person
- You really care about me
- I think that you are doing very well under those conditions
These are all sentences of encouragement!
- After your date has shared her feelings, thank her. If saying "thank you" feels a bit awkward, then give her a warm hug or just hold her.
Needless to say that this hug is without any sexual connotations…
I can imagine you have other ideas by now, but again we repeat: you are making sure the girl you are dating really likes you! If all goes well, many dates and sexual encounters will follow
The beter you know the girl you are dating, the less you really need to ask her to sit down and open up. But do make sure you keep repeating steps the last 6 of our 7 dating tips for shy guys!
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